Although I have never successfully followed through with New Year's resolutions, I have never ceased trying again each year. So here it goes...

1. Study more...a lot more
      This is not to say that I do poorly in school. In fact, I am in three AP courses (only 2 next semester, I'm moving down in 1). But I just can't seem to stay afloat. I have an A- in one class (pretty good), a C+ in another (awful), and a C+ in the class that I will be moving down from. So, what better resolution to start off with than to study more?

2. Be less sarcastic
      This was a tough one to decide on. I hadn't thought that my sarcasm was much of an issue until I began to notice that a few people were beginning to describe me as "sassy". Even though Urban Dictionary defines it as a pretty darn positive thing to be 

(http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=sassy), I can't say that I'm exactly pleased to be considered "cocky" (used in the 4th definition).

3. Cook dinner on the weekends
      This is both a selfish and selfless (sort of) thing to resolve to do. Normally it is my mother who cooks. And her cooking leaves just a tad bit to be desired. I respect her for trying but it seems as if she has given up on cooking. She has also made it quite clear that she would like some help cooking dinners. So...I resolve to slide into the kitchen to do more than bake this year. 

4. Read
      I love to read. I just never seem to find the time to (that's what they all say...). I guess I'll just have to make the time then.

5. Begin to learn ASL
      A while back I tried to begin to learn American Sign Language. It never seemed to take off. I think I learned about ten words in addition to the alphabet. This year I resolve to learn more.

6. Take better care of my precious cat
      Don't get me wrong; compared to most people, I take outstanding care of my cat. She is fed consistently twice a day. She always has a clean litter box and a warm body to rub up against. However, I want to be able to provide what most people don't. I will brush her teeth more consistently (better dental health leads to a longer life) and also clean her ears more often (all cats' ears get pretty gross). 

7. Eat healthier      
      Most people don't think that I'm an unhealthy eater because I'm not overweight. I've been called skinny even though I have a nice and healthy BMI of 21.2 (a healthy BMI is between 18.5 and 24.9). But despite this good overall weight, I have a pretty awful diet. I adore pasta. Cookies are so sweet and delicious. Butter makes all (well, almost all) dishes better. Chocolate...don't get me started on chocolate. So, this year should be filled with vegetables and fruits, grains and protein (I'm a vegetarian so the last one will be moderately difficult).

Here's to a safe and productive new year!

 
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Beginning when I saw him on SNL (he was pretty darn funny), I have thought that Bruno Mars is one attractive guy. I can’t say that I am particularly fond of his music, but I am in love with everything else about him. He has that sort of cute "bad boy" look and irresistible smile. And no matter how much I tried, I couldn’t find a picture of him posing shirtless which leads me to giving him some serious respect. There are not many singers out there whom I adore so Bruno is one of the special few.

Oh dear God I cannot believe I just wrote that last paragraph. But really, just look at that smile...


 
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I wish girls knew what they are worth. There’s no need to wear spandex as pants to school (yes, I know it’s disturbing) in order for guys to be attracted to them. Not that I know very much about that topic. However, no matter who notices her and who simply walks right by, there is no need to degrade or even just stupidify (I realize that’s not a word) oneself for others. And this issue stretches far beyond spandex.

It seems to have become very important to dress like going to a club each and every school day. If you’re a girl: It’s okay if you wear a sweatshirt to school every once in awhile. People will not judge you and if they do, they seriously need to sort out their priorities (and I mean this in the kindest way possible).

A very common dress style at my high school is Bodycon (see the picture if you don't know what I'm talking about). This type of dress is incredibly short, often has a revealing back and highlights the rear and chest area in a skin-tight holding-nothing-back way. No matter why people wear it, this sort of clothing is not meant for school and if it were up to me, it wouldn't be meant for wearing, period. I support feeling confident in your shape and body but what I do not support is using it simply to please others. I mean really, do you seriously feel comfortable in that...let alone warm?

Oh gosh, and what’s worse than school is Facebook! The duck face shots and ever-so-carefully executed photos tilting downwards (to show the chest and flat stomach, common in swimsuit shots) are growing ever more prevalent. I can’t help but grimace whenever I see such a shot. It’s sad and nauseating. And what’s worse is that our culture has wholeheartedly accepted this behavior and clothing.

Please comment, I want to hear...or read...your thoughts.